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Controlling the Spam Monster

What Is Spam

Is your in-box clogged with junk email messages from people you don't know? Are you overwhelmed by unsolicited email offering products or services you don't want? This is what’s called Spam.

When I first started getting Spam I thought it was funny that someone would send me an e-mail that promised to enlarge the penis of a 50-year-old grandmother. Then after thousands of such messages it became annoying. When my grandchild started getting them it went way beyond annoying. 

Spam clogging the Internet, and sending of the same unsolicited and unwanted message to millions of users. We spend hours out of our busy lives deleting such annoying messages. Often these messages are just selling things but they may contain a virus, spyware, or a malicious program. Internet Spam hurts everyone. Not only do we have to spend time deleting messages, money on software to control the effect of this menace on our computers, but also it bogs down the Internet.

Why do I get it?

Mostly you get Spam e-mail because some unethical business people are trying to make a buck with what they think is the easy way. Sometimes Spam is from mean spirited jerks that like to destroy. They send a virus or malicious program designed to hurt your computer just for fun. Often Spam comes from the purveyors of pornography in and effort to both make money and spread their filth. 

How Do Spammers Work?

Most spammers buy lists of e-mail addresses. Some web sites collect e-mail addresses and sell their lists to spammers. (As stated in our privacy policy, GrandsPlace will never do this.) The unscrupulous spammers then use these e-mail lists and send copies of their message to everyone on the list.

Some spammers use harvesting software to extract your e-mail address from the Internet. If you post your e-mail address on a web site, message board, chat room or any other place on the Internet it becomes ripe for harvesting.

Slowing the Email Harvest

The investigators indicate that email address harvesting usually is automated, because Spam can hit the addresses soon after they are used publicly the first time; the Spam was not targeted; and some addresses were picked up off web pages even when they weren't visible to the eye. Still, they say, consumers can protect their email addresses from harvesting programs. Here's how:

Consider "masking" your email address. Masking involves putting a word or phrase in your email address so that it will trick a harvesting computer program, but not a person. For example, if your email address is "myname@myplace.com," you could mask it as "myname@spamaway.myplace.com." Be aware that some newsgroup services or message boards won't allow you to mask your email address and some harvesting programs may be able to pick out common masks. 

Use a separate screen name for chatting. If you use chat rooms, use a screen name that's not associated with your email address. Consider using the screen name only for online chat. 

Set up disposable addresses. Decide if you want to use two email addresses - one for personal messages and one for posting in public. Consider using a disposable email address service that creates separate email addresses that forwards to your permanent account. If one of the disposable addresses begins to receive Spam, you can shut it off without affecting your permanent address. 

Use two email accounts. If you work for a business or organization that wants to receive email from the public, consider creating separate accounts or disposable email addresses for that purpose, rather than having an employee's address posted in public. 

Use a unique email address, containing both letters and numbers. Your choice of email address may affect the amount of Spam you receive because some spammers use "dictionary attacks" to email many possible name combinations at large ISPs or email services, hoping to find a valid address. 

How to get rid of it

Just deleting the unwanted messages is not enough. We probably will never rid ourselves totally from Spam but there are things you can do to reduce the effect it has on your life.

Use a good security program. I use Norton Internet Security 2006 on all my computers. In addition to great Spam filters it helps protect my computers from virus, spyware and other threats. It’s a bit pricey but much cheaper than leaving my expensive computers open to threats. Other programs from McAfee Internet Security Suite 2006 or ZoneAlarm Internet Security Suite 6 are also great helps. 

If you cannot afford one of the above security programs there are many free or lower cost alternatives you can download. Good ones can be found at C/net by logging on to the link in the box below.
 

http://www.cnet.com/2001-11351_1-0.html?tag=cnetfd.dir

· Never click the Unsubscribe link at the bottom of a Spam message. This only confirms to the Spammer that your address is good and this will lead to more Spam. Sometimes Spammers harvest e-mail addresses from these so called unsubscribe links to sell to other spammers.

· Before giving your e-mail address out on the internet be sure who you are giving it to. Giving an address out on a message board or chat-room is like saying “HEY SPAM ME PLEASE” to an e-mail harvesting program.

· Create a “disposable e-mail account” for use on the internet. By subscribing to a free e-mail account at yahoo, hot mail or other web site that offers web based e-mail accounts and using these for posting on the internet you can stop Spam from entering and clogging your mail e-mail account.

· Do Not click any link in a Spam e-mail. Often just clicking the link confirms your address and suggests your interest. Delete unwanted messages unread.

· Lastly never, never, ever buy anything from someone who sends you unsolicited advertising by e-mail, even if the product is something you want! This just encourages spammers to continue this horrid practice. Instead, if you see something you might be interested do an internet search and buy from a reputable business.

Fight Back

Meanwhile, what can you do with the Spam in your in-box? Report it, making sure that you include the full email header. The information in the header makes it possible to follow up on your complaint. Send your Spam to:

· The Federal Trade Commission, at spam@uce.gov. The FTC uses the emails in this database to pursue law enforcement actions against people who send deceptive Spam. 

· Your ISP's abuse desk. Often the email address is abuse@yourispname.com or postmaster@yourispname.com. Forwarding your Spam to your ISP lets them know about the Spam problem on their system and helps them to stop it. Include a copy of the Spam, along with the full email header, and at the top of the message, state that you're complaining about being spammed.

· The sender's ISP. Most ISPs want to cut off spammers who abuse their system. Include a copy of the message and header information and state that you're complaining about Spam.

Controlling the Spam monster is up to all of us.  Spam e-mails clog the Internet slowing it down for legitimate users. It has been estimated that 30 to 50 percent of the e-mail sent over the net is unwanted advertising. Much of it is pornography we might not want to bring into our homes willingly.  We can all do our parts to rid the Internet of this menace.

 


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